Some Nigerian netizens are currently having a heated debate online after a video of a Lagos-based Pastor, Kingsley Okonkwo, admonishing men against sex before marriage, surfaced online.
In the video, the pastor who recently had a spat with singer, Simi over his stance on women and marriage, said men should stay off premarital sex as it ends up destroying their destinies.
”Dear single man, please don’t fall for the trick that men can live anyhow, it is women that should keep themselves. Sexual immorality destroys destiny. All the grace of God in your life that you should have been using to gain mileage and make progress, you are emptying it on top of a woman. Sexual Immorality will reduce a man to a piece of Bread, it is taking the glory over your life. You will never become what you are meant to be if you have no self control. You think you are the one using women? You say to I have slept with many girls. If only God can open your eyes to see how you are ”uselessing” your destiny There is life flowing from you whenever you are sleeping with somebody you are not married to. It drains you, deadens the sensitivity of your spirit. Adultery stays in family except it is uprooted. You are just passing problems to your children” the pastor said.
As some Nigerians are feeling rather indifferent about the message, some others support the pastor’s message and some others are of the opinion that sex doesn’t affect destinies.